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It can be very difficult to make sense of counselling and psychotherapy, especially at stressful and emotional times.  My work has shown me that;
  • most of the things that distress us can be understood if we can find the right place and time to discuss them  
  • that even if you have suffered profound traumatic upsets, now or in the past, it is possible to improve the way you feel about them, and to improve the way you live
I hope you find the site informative.  There are blog posts, videos and lots of other information and links to help you work out what you want to do next.
If after visiting the site you would like to discuss things further, then please contact me to arrange a free telephone consultation.
I welcome your comments, feedback and ideas, and I look forward to hearing from you.
Thank you for visiting
Kind regards
Toby Ingham

Toby Ingham

UKCP registered psychotherapist, member of The Guild of Psychotherapists and The Association of Psychotherapists. Trained in NHS at St Barts’ Hospital, and Homerton Hospital in London, staff psychotherapist at Nightingale Hospital. Trained at Promis Addiction Centre and Age Concern.

18 years experience of working with people dealing with depression, low mood, anxiety states, trauma, bereavement and addictions.

Short and long term work available

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Latest posts

How Psychotherapy Works

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Fear Of Commitment

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In The Face Of Adversity

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Peter Pan Syndrome

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Relationship Anxiety

What causes relationship anxiety? We are learning about relationships from the start of our lives.  From the very beginning, as babies we look to bond with our mothers.  We develop our future relationships based on these early experiences of bonding … Read More