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		<title>Trying to fix wrong relationships</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Jul 2009 13:11:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[A woman in her 50s, who I’ll call Liz, has always found her relationship with her mother difficult.
Over the years Liz has felt that it’s made it hard for her to enjoy her relationships with her own daughters. In retrospect she can see it may have held her back in lots of ways.
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		<title>‘My mother is a bully’</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 26 Mar 2009 13:12:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[“I realize my mother is a bully,” says a woman I’ll call Carol. “There was a talk about bullying at my daughter’s school, and it dawned on me that the behaviour the teacher was describing referred very clearly to my mother.”]]></description>
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		<title>Spotting early signs of stress</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Mar 2009 13:12:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[icking up on signs of stress at an early stage can be very important.”When Richard starts biting his nails it’s a sure sign something’s up” says Jane “I used to think it was a trivial thing but now I take it more seriously”.Jane now knows that it is a sign that he is becoming withdrawn, [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Over possessiveness spoils relationship</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 05 Feb 2009 14:57:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[&#8220;She says I&#8217;m becoming too possessive&#8221; says a 35 year old man I will call Lewis who is worrying his relationship will fall apart.
He met his girlfriend at a New Year&#8217;s Eve party which he hadn&#8217;t wanted to go to. Lewis hasn&#8217;t had a girlfriend for a few years and he was surprised to meet [...]]]></description>
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		<title>When life turns dark</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 22 Jan 2009 14:59:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[&#8216;And then all the lights went out&#8217; says Sarah. &#8216;The power cut in Amersham last week really made us sit up.&#8217; Her husband was made redundant from the City last November.
&#8216;He got a redundancy payment and we both said he&#8217;d take the rest of 2008 off, and work out what to do in the New [...]]]></description>
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		<title>The trouble with Christmas</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 19 Dec 2008 10:01:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[&#8220;The trouble with Christmas&#8221; says Rachel &#8220;is that we are all supposed to get on, and we don&#8217;t! I don&#8217;t see my younger sister for months at a time. My mother&#8217;s always stressed and worried about my Dad and whether there&#8217;ll be an argument. But because it&#8217;s Christmas there&#8217;s the expectation that we can all [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Put away the credit card and face harsh reality</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 13 Nov 2008 15:03:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[A 56 year old teacher I&#8217;ll call Paul, has a strong sense of de vu about the current downturn in the economy. Paul was made redundant from the city in the 1987 crash. He says his redundancy came as a real shock to him. &#8220;One minute I was just flying, trading, there was loads of [...]]]></description>
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